I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
:yes:Obsidian said:post a bulletin that says "NEW PICS -- NEED COMMENTS!!!"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yo man, you asked a question and you got the right answer. I've seen both guys and girls post bulletins "NEW PIX!! PLEASE COMMENT! - I'll Comment Back".Tear Gas said:asking for comments is just pathetic..if a girl wants to comment, she'll comment
or you can comment on her pictures and sometimes they comment back
I.A.F.Y.B. said:Lift weights and post pictures of your muscles.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I do that too, like I just recently posted the new pictures to a dance I just went to recently, and my bulletin title was "who still goes to school dances?" and the topic was "I do haha." People will see that I have a new default picture within the dance and will get the message in their heads that I want them to comment my pics.Nexus Polaris said:Making a "New Pics" bulletin is good, but asking for comments does come off as needy.
I like to do it in a fun and humorous way. Post something like, "New Pics! Go check 'em out, you bastards!"
^^^Exactly the internet is all about looks if you dont have good ones stay off.MooseGod said:It's really easy: Be good looking and sit back and wait.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.