"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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myspace can either work for you or against you

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bored and browsed through many profiles both male and female. hot chicks have it easy. they could post the most simple pix and bam! their profiles are cool cause they're hot. us guys on the otherhand, it doesn't matter how good looking we are. i sifted through several male profiles and it's easy to distinguish the dudes who pull the chicks from the dudes who don't get ****. you can tell mainly by the comments section.

in my opinion, the comments section is the most important part of your profile. you can make yourself appear you have high value by posting cool pictures or writing a slick summary about yourself. but if you have little or no comments from others on your profile, it will to some degree contradict the image you tried to create.

myspace profiles can work for or against you. if you're hitting up a new girl, i suggest not to reveal your profile unless you know for sure it will increase rather than decrease your value to her.

if you have a profile with a bunch of comments from a variety of different people, especially different girls, people will have a positive preconceived idea about the person you are. girls will become more attracted to you because you apparantly have high value.

and i laugh out loud at dudes who post pictures of themselves playing some instrument in the comfort of home. those pictures scream, "Hey look at me! This picture is a desperate attempt for you to think I'm cool because I'm playing the guitar!" If you post pictures of yourself playing with a band at some venue, now that's a different story.

i also laugh out loud at dudes who post pictures of themselves with no shirts on. since we all get turned on checking out myspace girls half naked, some dudes are under the impression that girls will also get turned on seeing a hairy tanned chest. nope, it doesn't work that way. guys and girls are wired differently. girls get turned off by those pictures. ask any of your female friends and they'll attest to this. and if you ever posted a picture like this, hopefully you're gay. i hate to gross you out but this is true: gay guys will be the ones checking out and getting turned on by your hairy tanned chest. fact: the vast majority of people who buy playgirl type magazines are males, not females ( learned this from david d's advanced series)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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On the most part I agree, but if you check those guys (with no shirts on) they are usually the guys with tons of girls commenting...Something to think about it.
 

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yeah, girls like the shirtless pics. That is if you have a nice body. If you look at the comments on the shirtless pics you'll see that girls leave words of sexiness.
 

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Yo, homie - them girlies love guys with nice bodies. You'll notice some of the hot girls in your area with guys in their top 8 who have shirts-off photos.
 

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I'd never try this myself, but have thought about it how it could work:

Create several fake profiles of hot chicks using pictures off the internet and then fill your page up with comments from them. You can even invent story lines about hanging around them in real life.

The only problem is you'll have to create fake friends for the fake ones you create to maintain the illusion that they're real.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by john_1234

i also laugh out loud at dudes who post pictures of themselves with no shirts on. since we all get turned on checking out myspace girls half naked, some dudes are under the impression that girls will also get turned on seeing a hairy tanned chest. nope, it doesn't work that way. guys and girls are wired differently. girls get turned off by those pictures. ask any of your female friends and they'll attest to this. and if you ever posted a picture like this, hopefully you're gay. i hate to gross you out but this is true: gay guys will be the ones checking out and getting turned on by your hairy tanned chest. fact: the vast majority of people who buy playgirl type magazines are males, not females ( learned this from david d's advanced series)

wait so you actually believe your female friends?

right. those are the same girls that tell me "I NEVER HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!" the day after..

:crackup:

stop being so damn AFC.
 

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Re: Re: myspace can either work for you or against you

Originally posted by Egoist
wait so you actually believe your female friends?

right. those are the same girls that tell me "I NEVER HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!" the day after..

:crackup:

stop being so damn AFC.
hehe

yeah one thing ive learned is that almost all chicks always lie when it comes to what turn them on and stuff like that,

"no i dont masturbate"
"i just want a guy who listens , looks and sex mean nothing"
"ive only had sex with three guys in my life" (bigg bullshi)
"no ive never watched a porn movie"
"yeah i LOVE sports"
"oh hes just an old good friend"
 

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i'm talking in a general sense. of course there will be small percentage of girls who get turned on by that ****. but the majority of girls won't. girls do not place much emphasis on physical looks as us guys do. this is a fact. even all the top pua in the world agree witih this.
if you were to put ten guys in a room, and a hot chick with a bangin body walked in, all ten guys would bang her in a heartbeat. however, if the scenario were reversed, ten girls in a room and a hot dude with a banging body walked in, none of the girls would bang him in a heartbeat (generally speaking of course).
now back to the main point i was trying to get across. lets say a girl just met two different guys and both guys have profiles on myspace. she checks out guy #1 who has a nice body and has pictures posted of his tanned hairy chest. guy #1 also wrote a pretty cool summary of what he's about. but guy #1 has little or no comments from friends or hot chicks. she then checks out guy #2 who has simple pictures of himself posted. and he wrote nothing about himself. yet, he has a bunch of comments from friends and hot chicks. who do you think she'll perceive as having higher value?
 

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If you are good looking, you will make it on the internet. If you are not good looking take your magic offline
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
i'm talking in a general sense. of course there will be small percentage of girls who get turned on by that ****. but the majority of girls won't. girls do not place much emphasis on physical looks as us guys do. this is a fact. even all the top pua in the world agree witih this.
if you were to put ten guys in a room, and a hot chick with a bangin body walked in, all ten guys would bang her in a heartbeat. however, if the scenario were reversed, ten girls in a room and a hot dude with a banging body walked in, none of the girls would bang him in a heartbeat (generally speaking of course).
now back to the main point i was trying to get across. lets say a girl just met two different guys and both guys have profiles on myspace. she checks out guy #1 who has a nice body and has pictures posted of his tanned hairy chest. guy #1 also wrote a pretty cool summary of what he's about. but guy #1 has little or no comments from friends or hot chicks. she then checks out guy #2 who has simple pictures of himself posted. and he wrote nothing about himself. yet, he has a bunch of comments from friends and hot chicks. who do you think she'll perceive as having higher value?
i don't know where to start with you, guy.. I guess you still think girls don't poop, and their farts smell like strawberries?

cmon. women LOVE sex as much as men do. they are *perhaps* not as visually stimulated as guys are, but they are extremely sexual creatures. Guys are much more interested in physical appearances, but women sometimes wanna know whats behind it also.

but your assessment is waaay off base.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yea,
I actually get nice comments about my shirtless pics. Everyones swearing women are sooo sexual but now, you're acting like they don't get turned on by physical appearance @ all!
 

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Originally posted by Deus ex Pianoforte
*coughhorse$hitcough* Ouch, sorry...I think I had something stuck in my throat.
Go back to your Starf@gs and keep selling those $5 coffee to dumbasses, dumbass.
 
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