"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well I figured I would send a simple message to chicks on myspace, and if they were interested or responded back I would go from there and see how it ended up. I know I should be doin this in real life, but I figured online might be an easier place to start, cuz u gotta start some where right?

So to girls that I think r attractive I send
"wow your a cutie

lets chat..."

I've sent about 20 out so far and like 3-4 so far have responded so it's workin. Do u guys think is a good approach or should I change it up?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no man i think yuore giving it away way too early.

what i have done that has worked is just like message them but bust their balls you know? Say something like

Hey i was just checking out your myspace page, and I saw that you are interested in (something dumb like Friends or Heroes or Degrassi). You should watch out about this, most guys hate it.

If you'd like more tips on how to be more attractive, we can meet up for lunch in about two weeks when I'm free. How's thursday? I have a weights program I have to do but maybe we can get some dinner?


this is how i got my current "girlfriend" (she makes me call her that but she knows i see other girls too), and what have you got to lose anyway?

make sure you bust her balls, stir up her feelings, make her interested, and control the date time/place. don't let her decide. if she says I'm busy how about wednesday then you just say Nah i'm pretty busy then as well maybe another time, i'll let you know.

Good luck! :cheer:
 

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lol i'll mix it up, this one's actually goin pretty, every girl that's read the message has replyed so far, but i'll try that.
 

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Yea, dude, get out of the house and get involved. Get sociable. MEET PEOPLE. Build a circle of friends and stop giving a crap about everything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MySpace = Special Olympics

even if you win in the special olympics you'd still be retard
 

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fu*ked a fashion model on tuesday night thanks to a simular free internet site, you cant say it isnt real although yeah many girls dont see it as real, picking up girls on a night out and so on is better but i do think for a guy lacking confidence, to pick out a girl on the internet, speak 2 her on msn with a webcam... get complimented then meet her (he knows he's in when he meets her then), fu*k her and so on is a great way to build confidence albeit slow.
 

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Lol so anyways, it's goin good, all but three have responded and i just got one of their #'s, she told me to text her, so yeah jw should i wait on textin her like give it a day or so?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wow your a cutie

It's you're. And this approach sucks. Every other guy on myspace is telling the same girl she is hot. Maybe she will let you tell her some more, but then she'll shut off the computer after she gets her attention fix. At the very least, be different. Learn c&f. Tease her a little. Don't be so predictable, like every other guy.

Myspace works if you already have an interesting life. If there is nothing unusual and exciting about your life to show people, then you don't need a myspace page.
 

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Sure it might not be the best approach and yeah i'll change it up once i get a little more confident, but **** it's workin for me isn't it? And like anyone my age really types with that much grammar lol.
 

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Have you gotten any pvssy yet? I have gotten my last three GFs from myspace. I promise that telling a girl she is hot is a bad idea - both real life and online are the same in this respect.

And yes, teenagers mostly suck at grammar, but the smart girls don't. Using language poorly will disqualify you in the minds of intelligent women. No one writes perfectly, but at least try.
 

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Lol ok i will, and no i haven't yet, i just started yesterday so yeah, so when do u think i should text her then?
 

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stoner1129 said:
Well I figured I would send a simple message to chicks on myspace, and if they were interested or responded back I would go from there and see how it ended up. I know I should be doin this in real life, but I figured online might be an easier place to start, cuz u gotta start some where right?

So to girls that I think r attractive I send
"wow your a cutie

lets chat..."


I've sent about 20 out so far and like 3-4 so far have responded so it's workin. Do u guys think is a good approach or should I change it up?
Hey you and every other guy send girls the same message every day. What made that one special?

Why didn't you focus on your target by looking at her interest and mentioning something about that? Lets say it says she loves to play soccer. You start opening about what she likes.. getting to know her a little bit. Then, you say her lets get together and play soccer this weekend. And she will say yes or no.

You need to be different than every other douchebag on the internet hitting on girls!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you are doing basic afc stuff by giving your power away to early. YOU just need to look for a funny or quirky or wierd part of their profile and bust them on it. ONline gAME is more direct and open, like i could simply bust them on their tagline, about me info, etc. CHange up your myspace approaches and go for what you simply like or want.

Avoid just sending random women messages. Send messages to women who you could actually see yourself with if you can understand.

over AND OUT.
 

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sherineo said:
even if you win in the special olympics you'd still be retard
So, if you get laid off Myspace then you're a retard?

I'd call the guy who doesn't get laid a retard over a guy that gets laid through Myspace...

It should never be your only source of gaming, that's common sense. It's just something to do in your spare-time. There's nothing to lose.
 

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Lol yeah i'll change it up i just wanted to get a little more comfortable approaching girls, and i figured just a simple lame line would help and it has, and also the same thing for going through myspace. I'm just using these as like startin points until i get more comfortable with stuff.

But anyways how long should i give it to text the chick who's number i got? She sent it to me at like 1:30 in the morning when i was asleep.
 

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text her two days later. OR bust on her like " my number kept you up all night or is it the first time you got a number, o>O" she then says what? you reply< " i wonder*are you a future stalker* o.o"
 

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I think you're giving it away a little too easily.

Women like to be pursued, yes. But not like that. We want to know you're the hard to get kind. If you're doling it out like this...well...it doesn't leave much for the imagination.

What about the thrill of the chase? Don't be so juvenile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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