"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well I figured I would send a simple message to chicks on myspace, and if they were interested or responded back I would go from there and see how it ended up. I know I should be doin this in real life, but I figured online might be an easier place to start, cuz u gotta start some where right?

So to girls that I think r attractive I send
"wow your a cutie

lets chat..."

I've sent about 20 out so far and like 3-4 so far have responded so it's workin. Do u guys think is a good approach or should I change it up?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no man i think yuore giving it away way too early.

what i have done that has worked is just like message them but bust their balls you know? Say something like

Hey i was just checking out your myspace page, and I saw that you are interested in (something dumb like Friends or Heroes or Degrassi). You should watch out about this, most guys hate it.

If you'd like more tips on how to be more attractive, we can meet up for lunch in about two weeks when I'm free. How's thursday? I have a weights program I have to do but maybe we can get some dinner?


this is how i got my current "girlfriend" (she makes me call her that but she knows i see other girls too), and what have you got to lose anyway?

make sure you bust her balls, stir up her feelings, make her interested, and control the date time/place. don't let her decide. if she says I'm busy how about wednesday then you just say Nah i'm pretty busy then as well maybe another time, i'll let you know.

Good luck! :cheer:
 

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lol i'll mix it up, this one's actually goin pretty, every girl that's read the message has replyed so far, but i'll try that.
 

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Yea, dude, get out of the house and get involved. Get sociable. MEET PEOPLE. Build a circle of friends and stop giving a crap about everything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MySpace = Special Olympics

even if you win in the special olympics you'd still be retard
 

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fu*ked a fashion model on tuesday night thanks to a simular free internet site, you cant say it isnt real although yeah many girls dont see it as real, picking up girls on a night out and so on is better but i do think for a guy lacking confidence, to pick out a girl on the internet, speak 2 her on msn with a webcam... get complimented then meet her (he knows he's in when he meets her then), fu*k her and so on is a great way to build confidence albeit slow.
 

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Lol so anyways, it's goin good, all but three have responded and i just got one of their #'s, she told me to text her, so yeah jw should i wait on textin her like give it a day or so?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wow your a cutie

It's you're. And this approach sucks. Every other guy on myspace is telling the same girl she is hot. Maybe she will let you tell her some more, but then she'll shut off the computer after she gets her attention fix. At the very least, be different. Learn c&f. Tease her a little. Don't be so predictable, like every other guy.

Myspace works if you already have an interesting life. If there is nothing unusual and exciting about your life to show people, then you don't need a myspace page.
 

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Sure it might not be the best approach and yeah i'll change it up once i get a little more confident, but **** it's workin for me isn't it? And like anyone my age really types with that much grammar lol.
 

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Have you gotten any pvssy yet? I have gotten my last three GFs from myspace. I promise that telling a girl she is hot is a bad idea - both real life and online are the same in this respect.

And yes, teenagers mostly suck at grammar, but the smart girls don't. Using language poorly will disqualify you in the minds of intelligent women. No one writes perfectly, but at least try.
 

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Lol ok i will, and no i haven't yet, i just started yesterday so yeah, so when do u think i should text her then?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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stoner1129 said:
Well I figured I would send a simple message to chicks on myspace, and if they were interested or responded back I would go from there and see how it ended up. I know I should be doin this in real life, but I figured online might be an easier place to start, cuz u gotta start some where right?

So to girls that I think r attractive I send
"wow your a cutie

lets chat..."


I've sent about 20 out so far and like 3-4 so far have responded so it's workin. Do u guys think is a good approach or should I change it up?
Hey you and every other guy send girls the same message every day. What made that one special?

Why didn't you focus on your target by looking at her interest and mentioning something about that? Lets say it says she loves to play soccer. You start opening about what she likes.. getting to know her a little bit. Then, you say her lets get together and play soccer this weekend. And she will say yes or no.

You need to be different than every other douchebag on the internet hitting on girls!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you are doing basic afc stuff by giving your power away to early. YOU just need to look for a funny or quirky or wierd part of their profile and bust them on it. ONline gAME is more direct and open, like i could simply bust them on their tagline, about me info, etc. CHange up your myspace approaches and go for what you simply like or want.

Avoid just sending random women messages. Send messages to women who you could actually see yourself with if you can understand.

over AND OUT.
 

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sherineo said:
even if you win in the special olympics you'd still be retard
So, if you get laid off Myspace then you're a retard?

I'd call the guy who doesn't get laid a retard over a guy that gets laid through Myspace...

It should never be your only source of gaming, that's common sense. It's just something to do in your spare-time. There's nothing to lose.
 

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Lol yeah i'll change it up i just wanted to get a little more comfortable approaching girls, and i figured just a simple lame line would help and it has, and also the same thing for going through myspace. I'm just using these as like startin points until i get more comfortable with stuff.

But anyways how long should i give it to text the chick who's number i got? She sent it to me at like 1:30 in the morning when i was asleep.
 

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text her two days later. OR bust on her like " my number kept you up all night or is it the first time you got a number, o>O" she then says what? you reply< " i wonder*are you a future stalker* o.o"
 

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I think you're giving it away a little too easily.

Women like to be pursued, yes. But not like that. We want to know you're the hard to get kind. If you're doling it out like this...well...it doesn't leave much for the imagination.

What about the thrill of the chase? Don't be so juvenile.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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