"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MySpace and Facebook - "in a relationship"

Babnik

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Do you think many girls say that they are NOT single on MySpace and Facebook just to not get stalked and not get hit on?

It confuses me when I meet girls who show all signs of attraction and on those online profiles thingies it says IN A RELATIONSHIP...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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usually they are in a relationship or they just haven't updated in a year.
 

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...and the gut feeling and instinct tells me its not true or they want to cheat...

Sometimes I wonder why I ask questions here if deep inside I just KNOW instinctively what the answer is.
 

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Women still flirt and feel attraction for other guys even when they are in a relationship with someone else. I've begun chatting up girls at school who show every sign of attraction, all smiles, flirty, etc., only to find out they are a newlywed!
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Women still flirt and feel attraction for other guys even when they are in a relationship with someone else. I've begun chatting up girls at school who show every sign of attraction, all smiles, flirty, etc., only to find out they are a newlywed!
Sucks...but this one approached me herself 2 times just like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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