"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MySpace and Facebook - "in a relationship"

Babnik

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Do you think many girls say that they are NOT single on MySpace and Facebook just to not get stalked and not get hit on?

It confuses me when I meet girls who show all signs of attraction and on those online profiles thingies it says IN A RELATIONSHIP...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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usually they are in a relationship or they just haven't updated in a year.
 

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...and the gut feeling and instinct tells me its not true or they want to cheat...

Sometimes I wonder why I ask questions here if deep inside I just KNOW instinctively what the answer is.
 

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Women still flirt and feel attraction for other guys even when they are in a relationship with someone else. I've begun chatting up girls at school who show every sign of attraction, all smiles, flirty, etc., only to find out they are a newlywed!
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Women still flirt and feel attraction for other guys even when they are in a relationship with someone else. I've begun chatting up girls at school who show every sign of attraction, all smiles, flirty, etc., only to find out they are a newlywed!
Sucks...but this one approached me herself 2 times just like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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