Myrrdin
Don Juan
So enough theory, need to start practicing. I'm going to keep a Journal to follow my progress. Any tips and pieces of advice are welcome.
Let the games begin
Let the games begin
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Myrrdin's Journal
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Myrrdin
Don Juan
Rebirth
This was me. 2 months ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177858&highlight=dumped
This is me. Now.
Started working out. 3 times a week. Love it. And I start seeing the results, girls looking at me and checking me out. They just love a fit man
Started salsa. Again, love it. I can't get enough of it.
New hobby. Bought a guitar 2 days ago and started practicing. Every time I pick it up I visualize myself playing some tune. I can't wait to get to that level.
The ex.
Who?)
She IM-ed me 2 days ago when she saw the picture of the guitar. Had a little chat. Nothing too fancy. Showed her some vids of some very good guitarists.
Her response: "When you get to that level.... you'll be awesome."
Me: Baby, I'm already awesome. If I get to that level, I'll just be a very good guitar player.
Her: You arrogant prick...
Me: Bye, I'm busy
The ladies
Started reconnecting with some old acquaintances. Made some new friends. Girls asked me for numbers and IM. Yesterday chilled with a girl at my place watching a movie (no close)
Life's good the DJ way.
Don't believe me? Try it
This was me. 2 months ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177858&highlight=dumped
This is me. Now.
Started working out. 3 times a week. Love it. And I start seeing the results, girls looking at me and checking me out. They just love a fit man
Started salsa. Again, love it. I can't get enough of it.
New hobby. Bought a guitar 2 days ago and started practicing. Every time I pick it up I visualize myself playing some tune. I can't wait to get to that level.
The ex.
Who?
)She IM-ed me 2 days ago when she saw the picture of the guitar. Had a little chat. Nothing too fancy. Showed her some vids of some very good guitarists.
Her response: "When you get to that level.... you'll be awesome."
Me: Baby, I'm already awesome. If I get to that level, I'll just be a very good guitar player.
Her: You arrogant prick...
Me: Bye, I'm busy
The ladies
Started reconnecting with some old acquaintances. Made some new friends. Girls asked me for numbers and IM. Yesterday chilled with a girl at my place watching a movie (no close
)Life's good the DJ way.
Don't believe me? Try it
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Well done myrridin, sounds like your going about this the exact right way. Salsa classes is a great way to meet girls and once you master it, it will be even better in the clubs and what not. I also reccommend samba, i think you will like it, the brazillian mami's won't be able to keep away from you haha.
So yeah man make sure to push yourself outside your box, i want to see tons of approaches listed in here. I am looking forward to seeing more improvement in your life area as well as the women.
Both have to be in-sync, because when you have a true passion for something women can see it in you and it is the exact type of energy women want to be around. It show's someone is making a step in his life to improve himself and reaching his dreams.
So yeah man make sure to push yourself outside your box, i want to see tons of approaches listed in here. I am looking forward to seeing more improvement in your life area as well as the women.
Both have to be in-sync, because when you have a true passion for something women can see it in you and it is the exact type of energy women want to be around. It show's someone is making a step in his life to improve himself and reaching his dreams.
Myrrdin
Don Juan
Yes, cold approaches are the next level. Just wanted to put my own life in order first. Will keep you guys up to speed with what's going on. Love this forum. It's nice to have like minded people even if it's over a forum.
BTW, I did do 1 year of ballroom dances (waltz, tango, samba, cha cha etc). After salsa I might give it a try again. On that front I want to complete the advanced part of salsa before I move on
BTW, I did do 1 year of ballroom dances (waltz, tango, samba, cha cha etc). After salsa I might give it a try again. On that front I want to complete the advanced part of salsa before I move on