Myrrdin
Don Juan
So enough theory, need to start practicing. I'm going to keep a Journal to follow my progress. Any tips and pieces of advice are welcome.
Let the games begin
Let the games begin
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Myrrdin's Journal
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Myrrdin
Don Juan
Rebirth
This was me. 2 months ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177858&highlight=dumped
This is me. Now.
Started working out. 3 times a week. Love it. And I start seeing the results, girls looking at me and checking me out. They just love a fit man
Started salsa. Again, love it. I can't get enough of it.
New hobby. Bought a guitar 2 days ago and started practicing. Every time I pick it up I visualize myself playing some tune. I can't wait to get to that level.
The ex.
Who?)
She IM-ed me 2 days ago when she saw the picture of the guitar. Had a little chat. Nothing too fancy. Showed her some vids of some very good guitarists.
Her response: "When you get to that level.... you'll be awesome."
Me: Baby, I'm already awesome. If I get to that level, I'll just be a very good guitar player.
Her: You arrogant prick...
Me: Bye, I'm busy
The ladies
Started reconnecting with some old acquaintances. Made some new friends. Girls asked me for numbers and IM. Yesterday chilled with a girl at my place watching a movie (no close)
Life's good the DJ way.
Don't believe me? Try it
This was me. 2 months ago.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177858&highlight=dumped
This is me. Now.
Started working out. 3 times a week. Love it. And I start seeing the results, girls looking at me and checking me out. They just love a fit man
Started salsa. Again, love it. I can't get enough of it.
New hobby. Bought a guitar 2 days ago and started practicing. Every time I pick it up I visualize myself playing some tune. I can't wait to get to that level.
The ex.
Who?
)She IM-ed me 2 days ago when she saw the picture of the guitar. Had a little chat. Nothing too fancy. Showed her some vids of some very good guitarists.
Her response: "When you get to that level.... you'll be awesome."
Me: Baby, I'm already awesome. If I get to that level, I'll just be a very good guitar player.
Her: You arrogant prick...
Me: Bye, I'm busy
The ladies
Started reconnecting with some old acquaintances. Made some new friends. Girls asked me for numbers and IM. Yesterday chilled with a girl at my place watching a movie (no close
)Life's good the DJ way.
Don't believe me? Try it
rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
Well done myrridin, sounds like your going about this the exact right way. Salsa classes is a great way to meet girls and once you master it, it will be even better in the clubs and what not. I also reccommend samba, i think you will like it, the brazillian mami's won't be able to keep away from you haha.
So yeah man make sure to push yourself outside your box, i want to see tons of approaches listed in here. I am looking forward to seeing more improvement in your life area as well as the women.
Both have to be in-sync, because when you have a true passion for something women can see it in you and it is the exact type of energy women want to be around. It show's someone is making a step in his life to improve himself and reaching his dreams.
So yeah man make sure to push yourself outside your box, i want to see tons of approaches listed in here. I am looking forward to seeing more improvement in your life area as well as the women.
Both have to be in-sync, because when you have a true passion for something women can see it in you and it is the exact type of energy women want to be around. It show's someone is making a step in his life to improve himself and reaching his dreams.
Myrrdin
Don Juan
Yes, cold approaches are the next level. Just wanted to put my own life in order first. Will keep you guys up to speed with what's going on. Love this forum. It's nice to have like minded people even if it's over a forum.
BTW, I did do 1 year of ballroom dances (waltz, tango, samba, cha cha etc). After salsa I might give it a try again. On that front I want to complete the advanced part of salsa before I move on
BTW, I did do 1 year of ballroom dances (waltz, tango, samba, cha cha etc). After salsa I might give it a try again. On that front I want to complete the advanced part of salsa before I move on