"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So enough theory, need to start practicing. I'm going to keep a Journal to follow my progress. Any tips and pieces of advice are welcome.

Let the games begin :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rebirth

This was me. 2 months ago.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=177858&highlight=dumped


This is me. Now.

Started working out. 3 times a week. Love it. And I start seeing the results, girls looking at me and checking me out. They just love a fit man

Started salsa. Again, love it. I can't get enough of it.

New hobby. Bought a guitar 2 days ago and started practicing. Every time I pick it up I visualize myself playing some tune. I can't wait to get to that level.


The ex.

Who? :))

She IM-ed me 2 days ago when she saw the picture of the guitar. Had a little chat. Nothing too fancy. Showed her some vids of some very good guitarists.

Her response: "When you get to that level.... you'll be awesome."
Me: Baby, I'm already awesome. If I get to that level, I'll just be a very good guitar player.
Her: You arrogant prick...
Me: Bye, I'm busy

The ladies

Started reconnecting with some old acquaintances. Made some new friends. Girls asked me for numbers and IM. Yesterday chilled with a girl at my place watching a movie (no close :()

Life's good the DJ way.
Don't believe me? Try it :D
 

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Well done myrridin, sounds like your going about this the exact right way. Salsa classes is a great way to meet girls and once you master it, it will be even better in the clubs and what not. I also reccommend samba, i think you will like it, the brazillian mami's won't be able to keep away from you haha.

So yeah man make sure to push yourself outside your box, i want to see tons of approaches listed in here. I am looking forward to seeing more improvement in your life area as well as the women.

Both have to be in-sync, because when you have a true passion for something women can see it in you and it is the exact type of energy women want to be around. It show's someone is making a step in his life to improve himself and reaching his dreams.
 

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Yes, cold approaches are the next level. Just wanted to put my own life in order first. Will keep you guys up to speed with what's going on. Love this forum. It's nice to have like minded people even if it's over a forum.

BTW, I did do 1 year of ballroom dances (waltz, tango, samba, cha cha etc). After salsa I might give it a try again. On that front I want to complete the advanced part of salsa before I move on :D
 
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