Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Myers Briggs Personality Test

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I'd be interested to hear the results from the guys who took the test. For those unaquainted, it's a personality test derived from 8 factors, and based on your answers to questions, you end up with a certain 4.

I am an INTP (Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving).

Read this and you'll have a *very* good idea of who I am:
http://www.intp.org/intprofile.html

Finding out about your type will help you identify your strengths and weaknesses in pretty much all areas of life. Not to mention that knowing other people out there have a similar world-view and thought patterns makes you feel like less of a fukking alien, heh (INTP's are pretty rare).

I encourage you to take the test, an *official* (non-online) one if possible.

Cheers,
Duke
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm definately not a fan of this test. Can't be bothered explaining though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This test tells you about your personality just as much as IQ tests tell you about your intelligence.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mby i'm just having a blonde moment, but where do u take the actual test?
 

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Yes I have taken this test also and am rather disappointed with it's method. Many questions on it are far too generalized and are not an accurate measure.

Ex. In a group of people, you are...
A) Shy, and tend to wait to be approached.
B) Jumping in to conversations and adding to them.

Well, it all depends on the situation. Maybe 5 out of 30 times at a party you jumped in! But the other 25 you stayed shy. It's safe to assume that picking A would be accurate.
Now 15 times of 30 you were the life of the party. And vise versa. What do you pick? Maybe those 15 parties where you were shy was with a crowd of people who were cat-eating PETA activists. Do you pick A, or B?

Its like a buffet; how can you know what you like until you try all the dishes? How can you know who you are until you experience all there is?

Please note my bias, I took this test as a career choice kind of thing.
 
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INFJ

INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.

you write well because you can formulate your ideas clearly... you have integrity and consistency

INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations

They are usually right, and they usually know it

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Interesting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You guys can also try www.colorgenics.com and try the mood analysis, it's pretty accurate and also probably shorter then the test you took. I took the test (I think), but in order to get the full results I had to buy something.
 

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The problem with these obvious tests is that people lie to themselves.

For example, shy guys who *want* to be popular will answer questions pretending they are not shy.

As said before, an example:

In a group of people, you are...
A) Shy, and tend to wait to be approached.
B) Jumping in to conversations and adding to them.


A shy person who secretly wants to be outgoing will answer B. The reality is still A.
 

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Me

ENTP. I took a bunch of these tests for our business school and was surpsrised at how accurate this was.

I also took another long battery of tests for various things as was described as a Creative Theorist, which they told me is very rare.

Creative Theorists are highly imaginative and excel at being innovative and conjuring up notions of what could be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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