"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My world has turned

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skeeloo

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i feel bad after reading this and this is the most thoughtful post iv read on this site.
i hope cosmetic surgery will be possible for you man dont loose hope these plastic surgeons seem to do everything these days there is always hope.

i say live the best live you can but dont live everyday as your last because you forget there are others that still care about you like family and your expected to have kids later on.

jame dean lived everyday like it was his last and he ended up dead in a car crash same thing happened to a guy i knew.
accidents cant be avoided but its best you try the protect the small time we all have on this planet than live it like its your last.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It was disheartening to read your post. But I'm glad you got the most out of your life. Some guys grow up to be 60 and haven't yet truly lived a day in their life.

I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide to do.
 
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