"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my woman is gone... window shopping advice

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hey guys.
some of you may be familiar with my situation, some may not.
my girlfriend has gone away for a few months on a working holiday. we've decided to stay together, i know that its a fairly bad move, but we'll see how it goes..
now i'm not against window shopping, i mean, i happy to scout about and even date other girls trying to see if there is one i would be more happy with.
but here is what i don't get, how can i date, and raise a girls interest level without actually cheating on my girlfreind? is it possible? i'd like to shop around but i don't want to buy. unless the buy is too good a deal to pass up.
does that make sense?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stop making everything so complicated. If you are going out with other girls YOU ARE ALREADY CHEATING!!

Either CHEAT, or DONT!!!

If u cant handle the heat, dont light the fire!!
 
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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Stop making everything so complicated. If you are going out with other girls YOU ARE ALREADY CHEATING!!

Either CHEAT, or DONT!!!

If u cant handle the heat, dont light the fire!!
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Couldn't have said it better. Don't keep on jumping in and then jumping out. Go meet new girls and bang the living shiat outta them. Remember you'll meet and hook up with plenty of girls in your life time. Only one, one fukin' girl will end up with you. So go have fun and don't think about it twice.

Cuz let's be honest. How stupid would you feel if you held out and didn't date, only to find out your gf hooked up while she was away. I don't know the specifics of your situation, but I'd say have fun while she's away.


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Didn't you just post about how your GF is going to move away to work and how you didn't know what to do?

Sounds like you figured it out.

Talk about the kettle calling the pot black.
 
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Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
Couldn't have said it better. Don't keep on jumping in and then jumping out. Go meet new girls and bang the living shiat outta them. Remember you'll meet and hook up with plenty of girls in your life time. Only one, one fukin' girl will end up with you. So go have fun and don't think about it twice.

Cuz let's be honest. How stupid would you feel if you held out and didn't date, only to find out your gf hooked up while she was away. I don't know the specifics of your situation, but I'd say have fun while she's away.


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Anybody who advises someone else to cheat on their gf needs to be run over. If he's not happy with his situation, BE A MAN AND BREAK UP WITH HER.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Anybody who advises someone else to cheat on their gf needs to be run over. If he's not happy with his situation, BE A MAN AND BREAK UP WITH HER.
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I agree! Just break up with the girl! Your girl is 5 hours away moved in with two other guys. Have some GUTS! Be a man and put your foot down. Break up with her and then chase other women as a free man instead of worry about...is this cheating? Will my girlfriend find out?
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Anybody who advises someone else to cheat on their gf needs to be run over. If he's not happy with his situation, BE A MAN AND BREAK UP WITH HER.
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I agree as well - it was my understanding that a true dj will never cheat on a girl...let her go first.:cool:
 
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Originally posted by Kidquick
I agree as well - it was my understanding that a true dj will never cheat on a girl...let her go first.:cool:
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She will cheat on him before breaking up with him. Welcome to the real world boys!
 
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