"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My Wish

MackJr

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I wish I would never fail at anything ever again.

Is this even possible? From a success standpoint, it looks like there are people who do so. Randal on the Apprentice, for example.

Are successful people just better at picking their challenges, or do they never fail regardless?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dover

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Get real. Thats not possible. The only thing you can do is learn from your failures so as to succeed in the future.

I think that would be really boring too.


On a side note, I'd wish that nobody ever again has one of their wishes come true. Mwahaha!
 

PRMoon

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Mistakes are an essential part of life. From errors we all grow to become better people.

Also let me add that no one is perfect. Everyone has their flaws and makes their mistakes. The ones who make it seem like they don't just handle their losses well and are adiment about not making those mistakes again.
 

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That's an odd wish. Sounds to me like you've never actually learned from your mistakes or failures before. Either that or you can't seem to connect learning with failure.

You see, there's always two possible outcomes when you talk about success. Failing or never failing. Regardless of what you might believe, you do not have total control over incidences that causes you to fail or succeed. What you can do is control your response to failure or success. You can choose to pick yourself up in times of failure or keep staying down. You can choose to become a spoilt egotistical 'brat' in times of success or be modest and respectful.

If it's one thing you have to understand, it's the fact that the only thing you hae control over is your actions and thoughts. Don't go dreaming about external things falling into place so nicely for you.
 

diplomatic_lies

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Most successful appear perfect because they don't tell you about their failures.

When Donald Trump made his first million, he probably didn't let anyone know he screwed things up 100 times beforehand.

The only way to never make mistakes is to never try.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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there is only one way you can make sure you never fail at anything again. By never attempting anything new. :rolleyes:
 
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