My wingmans really nervous about tonight, any advice to give out? (somewhat urgent)

[Brighty]

I know, I hate these last minute topics too.

Basically the scenario is that I set my afc friend up with a reletively cute girl and I'm taking out her hot friend and we're both going double dating tonight (I suggested it to help him feel more comfortable). We're going to go out to eat and then go bowling, but the problem is is that its obvious that my friend is pretty nervous. I tried referring him to this site and I don't think he's taken a look at it and he's coming over in a few minutes to hang out before we go out.

Is there anything I could go over with him to help him feel more comfortable? I want this to work out between them but I feel that if he feels out of his element that he'll be too awkward and things won't happen. Is there anything you guys recommend that we do in the hour we have together before we go out, like discuss the gameplan/come up with conversation starters to always keep the convo going/release some of his tension?

Quick responses would be awesome guys, thanks again for helping out.

 

[Clarky]

Tell him that if this girl has agreed to go out with him then he must have done something right, i always used this to calm nerves on dates and before going for the kiss.

He needs to keep the convo light hearted, use kino when appropriate and ask open questions which get her talking about herself and interests. Tell him to gauge her reaction for signs of enjoyment or boredom and just to take the whole thing in his stride, if things go right then great, if things go wrong he can learn from his mistakes

 

[COD]

forget she's a girl and refer to her as just a buddy to hang out with with no expectations, JUST FRIENDS HANGING OUT..........pressure is off

 

[Brighty]

Thanks for the quick responses guys, good luck out in the field tonight everyone!

 

[scottfall]

forget she's a girl and refer to her as just a buddy to hang out with with no expectations, JUST FRIENDS HANGING OUT..........pressure is off

So, he should tell his friend to be nonsexual? ... right