"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RepphIz

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people might call me conservative but this is how i view life and how things should go

basically (imo) u'll be happy if you do everything here

ok

basically just go to school, do get really good grades, a+, my gpa now is 3.8-3.9 and im trying hard to make it 4

when u get good grades, things will be easier, but dont stop! work harder! know ur teachers/professors and please them! let them know u appreciate their hard work and that u need school

pick a college, usually ivy league, a good college will help ur resume! learn to type ur resume! proofread it a million times for no spelling errors (I don't feel like typing like this so back off!)

when u start getting job offers and jobs, u'll thank me and your parents cause thats when the money starts coming in, dont listen to people who tell u otherwise, a job is TOO IMPORTANT! everyone work and needs to, those who tell u otherwise is delusional and needs to be sent to a mental hospital!

after that when u start saving enough, life gets easier and easier, picking up chicks gets easier, i guarantee it

when u drive down with a ferarri or some nice car, i guarantee chicks will look at ur direction, when u take out ur wallet and flash that money, :crackup: getting laid becomes so easy!

kids will appreciate that u majored in something, u have knowledge that u specialize in, ur parents will be proud, what more can u ask from life???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Miles Davis

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Great insight, man. Sometimes it's the simple things like this that really ring true. Just do your best in everything that you do. Invest in yourself and reap the rewards.

Spot on.
 

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what if you go to a community college?is their hope?
 

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is that you TAI?
 

RepphIz

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Originally posted by Julian
is that you TAI?
TAI?

Originally posted by blinkwatt
what if you go to a community college?is their hope?
i dont know, i never been there, but i do know when u go to ivy leagues, have a high paying job, its so so so much easier from there
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No one said succes was bad...

However i do agree: I can just see the Gold-digging h0s zooming in on your ferrari-driving-AFC ass.

I then see you proceed to pay for dinner.

Then i see you standing at the altar with the first hot girl you get with.

The rest will be history...
 

oOh Nasty

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good thing you're around.

without people like you, filthy rich businesses (owned by business owners of course) wouldn't have employees.

:cheer:

~ j
 

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Originally posted by oOh Nasty
lol.

whatever tickles your pickle.

~ j
:crackup: I like this one.

On another note: ifyou follow that path, you have more chances to find a girl with the same credentials, thus making the gold-digging hos even easier to get as FBs.
 

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
No one said succes was bad...

However i do agree: I can just see the Gold-digging h0s zooming in on your ferrari-driving-AFC ass.

I then see you proceed to pay for dinner.

Then i see you standing at the altar with the first hot girl you get with.

The rest will be history...
Have to agree with Jake-inator here..

Nothing wrong with getting a good education en going after a good job, but don't forget to whipe out any AFC tendencies and work on your confidence before you get there or you will be seriously taken advantage of.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bumping this gem of a thread. Why was this kid banned? He's the next Socrates, I wish he were here to enlighten us with more maxims on how to live our lives.
 

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Originally posted by Mystic
Bumping this gem of a thread. Why was this kid banned? He's the next Socrates, I wish he were here to enlighten us with more maxims on how to live our lives.
I HOPE THAT WAS SARCUSAM
 

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Money helps, but there are too many well paid virgin afcs. I agree that money makes your life better, but everyone isnt willing to give everything up for a career. Hell I have a 3.8 gpa, scored 170 on the lsat, but I've decided not to attend law school for a job with more freedom. Ihad it planned that I was going to do the BIGLAW lawyer thing, but who needs to be the whipping boy of conservative jackass partners......
 

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Originally posted by Mystic
Bumping this gem of a thread. Why was this kid banned? He's the next Socrates, I wish he were here to enlighten us with more maxims on how to live our lives.
Socrates was killed by the very society he tried to enlighten - RepphIz is bound to suffer the same fate, except the punishment was downgraded to a "ban" instead of "poison".

Does anyone believe Socrates was really that great of a philosopher?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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