"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My vacation to Bahamas

Vantagepoint34

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Well this vacation I traveled with a G/f. Hb7 at best if you asked me at the time I needed a better girl. We ended up going to this hotel beach that a bus took us too. Also took some great shots by the bay which was crystal blue waters. Some thought's about how this place is no more got me a little nostalgic for freeport. Which was where I went and paid no more than $120 at the time for two people. Any of you Dj's vacation for cheap?

A couple of years later took a vacation for $49 to Ny in the summer. Was really nice but my jean size grew from the trip. A year later I was already ballooned up to size 36 tbh loved the vacation but the lifestyle of pizza, ice cream, and trip to jersey shore did not fair well with me.

More expensive trip might take later this year is to France. Paris no less. Any of you Dj's enjoy vacations on a regular basis? Would enjoy to hear about your stories or good experiences traveling. Considering Carona is now a global pandemic...
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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