"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My Transition , My Goals . What are your goals ?

Daddy The Pimp

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Hi bro's , whats up

I wanted to know what are your goals in life , what are you trying to improve and these things .Im asking because i started mindset transition and i wanna know some things to add . Some good idea's :D . Thanks :D Lets start :D

For me , i joined SoSuave not only to improve my relationships with girls/womens . I wanted to become better person , everyone to like me ( i know it sounds APPROVAL SEEKING ) but thats what im trying to improve . I wanna be the most fun guy in whole school . I want everyone to get attracted to me (not only girls , i mean boys thinking that im cool guy ) . I want everyone wanna be like me :D.

I also wanna became better student cuz for the past years i was like " I DONT GIVE A FVCK ABOUT NOTHING :D " . Now maybe its a bit late . But better late than never .

I also wanna hit the gym . I think im going to do it tomorrow or next week .
I wanna be something like THIS maybe or less muscular .

But most important thing is to become better person . Im a bit rough . I want to be total DJ .

My Relationship with girls are OK now . I never game less then 3 girls . And of course they are mine :D. But i want all other girls , boys , friends , teachers , neighbors think that im GREAT GUY/ATTRACTIVE GUY/GREAT FRIEND/GREAT STUDENT .

Ill keep working on it till i became what im expecting . My deadline is 2009 .

Small tip:give yourself deadline for everything .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Whoa , well i was just browsing through my threads and i found this thread that i posted to months ago . Its so fun to see that most of your goals are achieved .

I can also see how goals evolve .Now i have much more advanced goals .

My advice would be to set yourself some goals . You need to have goals and to focus achieving them . And when achieving , youll feel fvcking greatttt.

Cheers
 

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Congrats on reaching most of your goals so quickly. This is why its essential to write down our goals. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
 
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