"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My Transition , My Goals . What are your goals ?

Daddy The Pimp

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Hi bro's , whats up

I wanted to know what are your goals in life , what are you trying to improve and these things .Im asking because i started mindset transition and i wanna know some things to add . Some good idea's :D . Thanks :D Lets start :D

For me , i joined SoSuave not only to improve my relationships with girls/womens . I wanted to become better person , everyone to like me ( i know it sounds APPROVAL SEEKING ) but thats what im trying to improve . I wanna be the most fun guy in whole school . I want everyone to get attracted to me (not only girls , i mean boys thinking that im cool guy ) . I want everyone wanna be like me :D.

I also wanna became better student cuz for the past years i was like " I DONT GIVE A FVCK ABOUT NOTHING :D " . Now maybe its a bit late . But better late than never .

I also wanna hit the gym . I think im going to do it tomorrow or next week .
I wanna be something like THIS maybe or less muscular .

But most important thing is to become better person . Im a bit rough . I want to be total DJ .

My Relationship with girls are OK now . I never game less then 3 girls . And of course they are mine :D. But i want all other girls , boys , friends , teachers , neighbors think that im GREAT GUY/ATTRACTIVE GUY/GREAT FRIEND/GREAT STUDENT .

Ill keep working on it till i became what im expecting . My deadline is 2009 .

Small tip:give yourself deadline for everything .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Whoa , well i was just browsing through my threads and i found this thread that i posted to months ago . Its so fun to see that most of your goals are achieved .

I can also see how goals evolve .Now i have much more advanced goals .

My advice would be to set yourself some goals . You need to have goals and to focus achieving them . And when achieving , youll feel fvcking greatttt.

Cheers
 

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Congrats on reaching most of your goals so quickly. This is why its essential to write down our goals. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
 
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