"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

My time to go?

2

23*

Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2005
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
Germany
Hey fellas,

today I would like to collect some opinions from you about the question: When does a Don Juan know that it's his time to go?!

The story behind my question: A few weeks ago I met a very sweet girl. We had some fun together, we kissed and touched a little bit, and she even admitted that she is interested in me. The main problem was/is that she still has a boyfriend. Well, today we wanted to see each other again and she said that she would call me around 5 pm in order to set up the date... to make a long stoy short: she didn't call nor write me and now I'm pissed as f*ck.

This girl was trouble from the first day on and I don't know if I should just ignore her from now on and move on or if I should fight for her?!

...I have read a lot of times on this site that a true Don Juan should never tolerate any games... but in the book from Robert Greene "The Art of Seduction" the author says that only wanna-be-casanovas give up the first time and that true players keep trying because a lot of times the girls just wanna find out how much they mean to you.

What's your opinion? Fight or leave? Please, hook me up!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

S

Sapiens

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2005
Messages
310
Reaction score
4
Is she worth your time? If she is then follow your instinct.
 
M

Mr Spitfire

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2004
Messages
154
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
Encinitas
23,

She has a boyfriend. You are getting pissed because she didn't follow through with your plans to meet you? I think you are James Bond... psych!
 
M

Monkey

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 4, 2001
Messages
1,131
Reaction score
1
Location
Planet of the Apes
Tell her to choose - its the Bf or you.

But playing second fiddle to another guys girl?? damn man, have some self respect.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top