"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My time to go?

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Hey fellas,

today I would like to collect some opinions from you about the question: When does a Don Juan know that it's his time to go?!

The story behind my question: A few weeks ago I met a very sweet girl. We had some fun together, we kissed and touched a little bit, and she even admitted that she is interested in me. The main problem was/is that she still has a boyfriend. Well, today we wanted to see each other again and she said that she would call me around 5 pm in order to set up the date... to make a long stoy short: she didn't call nor write me and now I'm pissed as f*ck.

This girl was trouble from the first day on and I don't know if I should just ignore her from now on and move on or if I should fight for her?!

...I have read a lot of times on this site that a true Don Juan should never tolerate any games... but in the book from Robert Greene "The Art of Seduction" the author says that only wanna-be-casanovas give up the first time and that true players keep trying because a lot of times the girls just wanna find out how much they mean to you.

What's your opinion? Fight or leave? Please, hook me up!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sapiens

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Is she worth your time? If she is then follow your instinct.
 
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Mr Spitfire

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23,

She has a boyfriend. You are getting pissed because she didn't follow through with your plans to meet you? I think you are James Bond... psych!
 
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Monkey

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Tell her to choose - its the Bf or you.

But playing second fiddle to another guys girl?? damn man, have some self respect.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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