"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My time to go?

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Hey fellas,

today I would like to collect some opinions from you about the question: When does a Don Juan know that it's his time to go?!

The story behind my question: A few weeks ago I met a very sweet girl. We had some fun together, we kissed and touched a little bit, and she even admitted that she is interested in me. The main problem was/is that she still has a boyfriend. Well, today we wanted to see each other again and she said that she would call me around 5 pm in order to set up the date... to make a long stoy short: she didn't call nor write me and now I'm pissed as f*ck.

This girl was trouble from the first day on and I don't know if I should just ignore her from now on and move on or if I should fight for her?!

...I have read a lot of times on this site that a true Don Juan should never tolerate any games... but in the book from Robert Greene "The Art of Seduction" the author says that only wanna-be-casanovas give up the first time and that true players keep trying because a lot of times the girls just wanna find out how much they mean to you.

What's your opinion? Fight or leave? Please, hook me up!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sapiens

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Is she worth your time? If she is then follow your instinct.
 
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Mr Spitfire

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23,

She has a boyfriend. You are getting pissed because she didn't follow through with your plans to meet you? I think you are James Bond... psych!
 
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Monkey

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Tell her to choose - its the Bf or you.

But playing second fiddle to another guys girl?? damn man, have some self respect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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