well for the past 4 yrs I notice that alot of times through out the year my throat will feel all dried up and s*it. its f*cking annoying to me. I will talk to someone and they will be like what? and I feel as if I cant talk loud enough what the hell? I dont smoke or drink just to let you guys know. sometimes i talk loud in a loud enviorment(sp) and I feel as if someone is squeezing my throat its a f*cking b*tch I hate it. Im not sure if I need to warm up my voice or something lol. so please what should I do? oh I have went to the doctor before like a year ago and they just gave me some nasal spray s*it it helped then later it didnt...im f*cked. advice please?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
my throat is f*cked
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Master Don Juan
Slippery elm tea. There's also a recent 'sore throat' thread with some other ideas.
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