Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I feel bad for agreeing with this tool...Bvbidd said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Before you post flippinfreak and anyone else do me a favor and go read my old posts and threads.It will tell you guys that I went through pain,motions because friday I went to the mall approach couple girls.So you guys need to stp assuming and im not trying to argue with anyone,but how ever if you post anything that isn't true,insulting me I will post back defending myself.flippinfreak said:
While I commend you on your efforts this past friday, by going to the mall and stuff, you've really got a ton more growing to do. One time at the mall trying things out isn't going to teach you enough. You need to start doing that every week, as well as working on your appearence, inner game, and other such things. I can warn you right now that it will probably take a few months of work to get results that you truly notice, but keep it in mind that it is so worth it you'll never even think of looking back.dreamx said:
Might I add that you seem like a tool when you capitalize the first letter of each word.dreamx said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I did PM them but I feel its better we have a thread on the issue.Because there other members who have issues with the mods,so by my thread existing we can all discuss then they can lock it.And it would be good for this thread existing because so other members can view it and learn from my mistake.And moderators will be able to explain how current threads stay.Mr_rogers said:
Haha. No.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
good luckHold on, this is my best joke of the night, wait for it....!!!
Ohh, haha. WHO did he send it too, that would be a good question.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think you should have PM'ed me, if you even PM'ed anyone.dreamx said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.