You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I feel bad for agreeing with this tool...Bvbidd said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Before you post flippinfreak and anyone else do me a favor and go read my old posts and threads.It will tell you guys that I went through pain,motions because friday I went to the mall approach couple girls.So you guys need to stp assuming and im not trying to argue with anyone,but how ever if you post anything that isn't true,insulting me I will post back defending myself.flippinfreak said:
While I commend you on your efforts this past friday, by going to the mall and stuff, you've really got a ton more growing to do. One time at the mall trying things out isn't going to teach you enough. You need to start doing that every week, as well as working on your appearence, inner game, and other such things. I can warn you right now that it will probably take a few months of work to get results that you truly notice, but keep it in mind that it is so worth it you'll never even think of looking back.dreamx said:
Might I add that you seem like a tool when you capitalize the first letter of each word.dreamx said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I did PM them but I feel its better we have a thread on the issue.Because there other members who have issues with the mods,so by my thread existing we can all discuss then they can lock it.And it would be good for this thread existing because so other members can view it and learn from my mistake.And moderators will be able to explain how current threads stay.Mr_rogers said:
Haha. No.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
good luckHold on, this is my best joke of the night, wait for it....!!!
Ohh, haha. WHO did he send it too, that would be a good question.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think you should have PM'ed me, if you even PM'ed anyone.dreamx said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.