Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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here are just some posts I made over at other fourms.... hope you enjoy

here are a couple of things I do to help my mental state.

in the mornings I say my affirmations this is a very important step for me in the mornings as I affirm what I want. like just say I want girls to see me as a sexual being then I would say "I feel women see me as sexual being there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me".

its very important to get specific when not only saying what you want but also saying what the reaction is when you get what you want "there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me" thats the reaction to women seeing me as a sexual being. get specific!!

next what I do is at night I visualize everything I want in my life from money, to fame, to women everything. and I see myself having these things in my life, and how I would behave as if I had these things in my life. most of the time its right before I go to sleep but sometimes if I have time to myself I will reflect on it always visualizing. eye on the prize!!!


also its important to note that once one takes the steps to become something in essence there are what they seek to become. one can not fake or act attractive nether you are or your not. you can't act attractive, there is only being or not being. in truth if you take the steps to being you're already there. if you seek to be a wise man, then take the steps to become a wise man, and you shall be a wise man. seek to become a seducer, take the steps to be a seducer and you shall be a seducer.




I myself has had many people I have helped out some in person but most of the rest were online.

at first when I would do the in person stuff I would try to force the person to approach cause my main problem was that I didn't have someone to push me thinking everybody just needed a push (my personal fault as I was new to teaching) putting un-needed pressure on anyone is never a good thing which I learned as a teacher. as a person I was always pushed hard by my coaches, teachers ect I grew up with being pushed so that I could excel. that was what I needed but everyone isn't like me as I learned. so from there on I focused on releasing the blocks and finding sticking points that hinder them and find ways to get over them. I take a more inner self approach now then I used to.


its my suggestion to all of you who want to get to a higher level of self knowledge is to help someone else find themselves and see how much you've grown


love, live life

blackgame
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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