"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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here are just some posts I made over at other fourms.... hope you enjoy

here are a couple of things I do to help my mental state.

in the mornings I say my affirmations this is a very important step for me in the mornings as I affirm what I want. like just say I want girls to see me as a sexual being then I would say "I feel women see me as sexual being there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me".

its very important to get specific when not only saying what you want but also saying what the reaction is when you get what you want "there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me" thats the reaction to women seeing me as a sexual being. get specific!!

next what I do is at night I visualize everything I want in my life from money, to fame, to women everything. and I see myself having these things in my life, and how I would behave as if I had these things in my life. most of the time its right before I go to sleep but sometimes if I have time to myself I will reflect on it always visualizing. eye on the prize!!!


also its important to note that once one takes the steps to become something in essence there are what they seek to become. one can not fake or act attractive nether you are or your not. you can't act attractive, there is only being or not being. in truth if you take the steps to being you're already there. if you seek to be a wise man, then take the steps to become a wise man, and you shall be a wise man. seek to become a seducer, take the steps to be a seducer and you shall be a seducer.




I myself has had many people I have helped out some in person but most of the rest were online.

at first when I would do the in person stuff I would try to force the person to approach cause my main problem was that I didn't have someone to push me thinking everybody just needed a push (my personal fault as I was new to teaching) putting un-needed pressure on anyone is never a good thing which I learned as a teacher. as a person I was always pushed hard by my coaches, teachers ect I grew up with being pushed so that I could excel. that was what I needed but everyone isn't like me as I learned. so from there on I focused on releasing the blocks and finding sticking points that hinder them and find ways to get over them. I take a more inner self approach now then I used to.


its my suggestion to all of you who want to get to a higher level of self knowledge is to help someone else find themselves and see how much you've grown


love, live life

blackgame
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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