"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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here are just some posts I made over at other fourms.... hope you enjoy

here are a couple of things I do to help my mental state.

in the mornings I say my affirmations this is a very important step for me in the mornings as I affirm what I want. like just say I want girls to see me as a sexual being then I would say "I feel women see me as sexual being there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me".

its very important to get specific when not only saying what you want but also saying what the reaction is when you get what you want "there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me" thats the reaction to women seeing me as a sexual being. get specific!!

next what I do is at night I visualize everything I want in my life from money, to fame, to women everything. and I see myself having these things in my life, and how I would behave as if I had these things in my life. most of the time its right before I go to sleep but sometimes if I have time to myself I will reflect on it always visualizing. eye on the prize!!!


also its important to note that once one takes the steps to become something in essence there are what they seek to become. one can not fake or act attractive nether you are or your not. you can't act attractive, there is only being or not being. in truth if you take the steps to being you're already there. if you seek to be a wise man, then take the steps to become a wise man, and you shall be a wise man. seek to become a seducer, take the steps to be a seducer and you shall be a seducer.




I myself has had many people I have helped out some in person but most of the rest were online.

at first when I would do the in person stuff I would try to force the person to approach cause my main problem was that I didn't have someone to push me thinking everybody just needed a push (my personal fault as I was new to teaching) putting un-needed pressure on anyone is never a good thing which I learned as a teacher. as a person I was always pushed hard by my coaches, teachers ect I grew up with being pushed so that I could excel. that was what I needed but everyone isn't like me as I learned. so from there on I focused on releasing the blocks and finding sticking points that hinder them and find ways to get over them. I take a more inner self approach now then I used to.


its my suggestion to all of you who want to get to a higher level of self knowledge is to help someone else find themselves and see how much you've grown


love, live life

blackgame
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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