"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My thoughts about errection problems

RickTheToad

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Testosterone for one. Don't treat it as gospel the way many guys on here do though. I was having shots that sent my testosterone shooting to many times the maximum recommend limit for a couple of days at a time, but I didn't feel any more energetic, aggressive or horny during those days. It's a placebo IMO. Now I use cream and my testosterone is right at the minimum recommended limit, and I feel the same.
This is not really a testosterone issue, since he says he still can get erect and he's not losing an erection. However, since he's going for a complete blood count, it doesn't hurt. However, again, low T has little to do with this issue. The CBC is the 1st step. Actually, everyone, male or female, should have a CBC done on the annual exam. If your GP doesn't order it by default, request it. It's covered by insurance in most countries as it's considered preventative care.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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King Lion

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I'm gonna share some ancient oriental wisdom with y'all...

If you go in hard as steel - you soon will get soft and melt from the increase in heat.

But if you instead go in like an uncooked egg - as the heat increases - the egg will only get harder!
 

mrgoodstuff

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That's why you have standards.
"overly picky" is having such a high standard that nearly everyone else turns you off. Which means in general you are turned off...

Back when any female could drive sexual excitement in you, you were ALWAYS turned on. There was nothing to excite or rise, the sexual energy always there and you were immersed in it daily.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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