"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My theory on b*tchy woman that you think hate your guts

confuscioused

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*****y woman that you think hate your guts. They really want you and are frustrated that you don't want them as bad and or haven'
t made a move on them if they thought you liked them. I've been accused of flirting with girls and teasing them and man they come back with a vengeance if you dare play chick games with them like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YAY another thread with a sh*tty title!!!
 

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confuscioused said:
stop blowing up the thread you ****in beaner!
Be cool bro.

Fixed your thread title. You'll get more views and responses from the one that we have now than "My theory on".

Imagine reading a book called "How To Pick" when the real title of the book should be "How To Pick Up Women During The Day". Far less people will be interested in even picking it up.
 

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yeah I agree, this is currently happening with an ex of mine. Every time I see her (we work together unfortunately) she acts butthurt, distant and cold due to the fact that I didn't beg her to come back and I moved on (and haven't replied to txts and emails). She doesn't even say hello. I suppose this applies to all the *****y girl you come across every day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I agree OP

Thin line between love and hate.

Key thing here is you're getting an emotional response, not an indifferent blow off.
 

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There are two types of women that can hate a guy:

1. As the OP mentions, you have women that are bothered by how you treated her or rejected her, but they are still strangely attracted to you. It's the, "I hate you, but I'd still F you" sort of thing.

2. Then there is the female who isn't attracted to you and acts bytchy towards you. This is the, "I hate you BECAUSE I don't want to F you" sort of thing.
 

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ive noticed some women at work who were real *****y to me all of a sudden gave me a smile out of nowhere after i started ignoring them, i think some of these women may like you but are shy or dont want to reveal it immediately for whatever reason, i dont think its uncommon
 
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