"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My theory on b*tchy woman that you think hate your guts

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*****y woman that you think hate your guts. They really want you and are frustrated that you don't want them as bad and or haven'
t made a move on them if they thought you liked them. I've been accused of flirting with girls and teasing them and man they come back with a vengeance if you dare play chick games with them like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vice

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YAY another thread with a sh*tty title!!!
 

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confuscioused said:
stop blowing up the thread you ****in beaner!
Be cool bro.

Fixed your thread title. You'll get more views and responses from the one that we have now than "My theory on".

Imagine reading a book called "How To Pick" when the real title of the book should be "How To Pick Up Women During The Day". Far less people will be interested in even picking it up.
 

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yeah I agree, this is currently happening with an ex of mine. Every time I see her (we work together unfortunately) she acts butthurt, distant and cold due to the fact that I didn't beg her to come back and I moved on (and haven't replied to txts and emails). She doesn't even say hello. I suppose this applies to all the *****y girl you come across every day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree OP

Thin line between love and hate.

Key thing here is you're getting an emotional response, not an indifferent blow off.
 

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There are two types of women that can hate a guy:

1. As the OP mentions, you have women that are bothered by how you treated her or rejected her, but they are still strangely attracted to you. It's the, "I hate you, but I'd still F you" sort of thing.

2. Then there is the female who isn't attracted to you and acts bytchy towards you. This is the, "I hate you BECAUSE I don't want to F you" sort of thing.
 

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ive noticed some women at work who were real *****y to me all of a sudden gave me a smile out of nowhere after i started ignoring them, i think some of these women may like you but are shy or dont want to reveal it immediately for whatever reason, i dont think its uncommon
 
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