I think most guys grow up having not much romantic or sexual attention from women...so then some ugly or at best average girl shows a lot of interest in them and makes things really easy for them...they think "I can't do any better" then convince themselves they're in love, and then they get married and have kids and spend their off-time looking at internet porn or checking out attractive women in a creepy way when their wife isn't looking.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
My theory on a majority of relationships.
- Thread starter DoItAgain
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
CuriousGirl
Senior Don Juan
Why?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
a lot of them end up with the low quality woman who chooses them...coz they live in scarcity they stick with the little attention they get...and put up with a lot of crap/misery!
they live in ignorance
they live in ignorance