"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My test of will (i'm following afk's suggestion of startin my own thread for it)

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Ok, decided id do afk's test of will: so, like he said, I'm starting small, and I'll add to my list as time goes on. Though I think I'm gona add other stuff on here i want to imporve on.

1. No Masturbation/ Porn
2. Hold A/A- average at school

well, that's all for now, I'll add more as time passes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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end of day 2

well, not a bad start, had the urge to give in for awhile the first two days, suprisingly, once i decided, no, i've made a pact with myself, it became a whole lot easier. Havn't had any problemos with gettin hard when I'm around other people, aka hot girls, like tonight.

I seem to have found that I have a lot of control over myself when i decide to do something.

I'll update in a few days, as well as adding a few more things to cut out.
 

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day 4

Man, so hard sometimes to not give in, but I'm still going strong so far. And now, time to add a few more things to the list:

3. Workout 3 times a week
a. 3 sets of 30 pushups
b. 5 sets situps/ variations of situps
c. running (not sure if I do this or not,
on one hand, I need to get into shape for soccer, on the other, doesn't it cause you to not get big as fast?)
d. any other suggestions? (stuff I should add on, etc.)
4. No Procrastination

This is sort of becoming a self improvement thing, but hey, that's ok with me.
 

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day 4 update/ day 5

day 4 update:
1. no masterbation/porn- complete
2. Hold A/A- average at school-complete
3. Workout 3 times a week- complete
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
b. 3 sets situps/ variations of situps at 20 reps-complete
c. running -complete
4. No Procrastination-complete

Day 5
1. No Masturbation/ Porn- complete
2. Hold A/A- average at school-complete
3.Workout 3 times a week- complete, todays an off day
4. No Procrastination-complete

So far so good

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one other thing I wanted to say, though it was AFK's suggestion of starting my own thread, the original idea came from October, just wanted to give credit were it's due.
 
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I was waiting for someone to realize that:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Zaine
I was waiting for someone to realize that:D
the october thing?

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Day 6
1. No masturbation/porn-complete
2. Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week- Monday, Wednesday, Friday)-complete
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
b. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
c. running-complete

4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to completesomething-complete
 
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Day 7

1. No masturbation/porn-complete
2. Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week- Failed Monday, Wednesday, Friday)
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-Failed
b. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-Failed
c. running-complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something-complete

Got the running in, had a soccer game then spent the night at a friends house, came home at 1:30 and went to bed. Had some problems earlier in the day as well, fixing a mistake my mom made on the computer and letting a bunch of spyware in.

Day 8
1. No masturbation/porn-Failed
(Record: 8)
Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week)- Not a workout day; complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something-In progress
 

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Day 9

1. No masturbation/porn-Failed
(Record: 8)
Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week)- Not a workout day; complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something- Complete

Darnit, I'm slipping, oh well, no more failure!

I'm considering revampin this alittle, changing a few of my goals, adding a few etc.
 
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