"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My test of will (i'm following afk's suggestion of startin my own thread for it)

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Ok, decided id do afk's test of will: so, like he said, I'm starting small, and I'll add to my list as time goes on. Though I think I'm gona add other stuff on here i want to imporve on.

1. No Masturbation/ Porn
2. Hold A/A- average at school

well, that's all for now, I'll add more as time passes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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end of day 2

well, not a bad start, had the urge to give in for awhile the first two days, suprisingly, once i decided, no, i've made a pact with myself, it became a whole lot easier. Havn't had any problemos with gettin hard when I'm around other people, aka hot girls, like tonight.

I seem to have found that I have a lot of control over myself when i decide to do something.

I'll update in a few days, as well as adding a few more things to cut out.
 

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day 4

Man, so hard sometimes to not give in, but I'm still going strong so far. And now, time to add a few more things to the list:

3. Workout 3 times a week
a. 3 sets of 30 pushups
b. 5 sets situps/ variations of situps
c. running (not sure if I do this or not,
on one hand, I need to get into shape for soccer, on the other, doesn't it cause you to not get big as fast?)
d. any other suggestions? (stuff I should add on, etc.)
4. No Procrastination

This is sort of becoming a self improvement thing, but hey, that's ok with me.
 

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day 4 update/ day 5

day 4 update:
1. no masterbation/porn- complete
2. Hold A/A- average at school-complete
3. Workout 3 times a week- complete
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
b. 3 sets situps/ variations of situps at 20 reps-complete
c. running -complete
4. No Procrastination-complete

Day 5
1. No Masturbation/ Porn- complete
2. Hold A/A- average at school-complete
3.Workout 3 times a week- complete, todays an off day
4. No Procrastination-complete

So far so good

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one other thing I wanted to say, though it was AFK's suggestion of starting my own thread, the original idea came from October, just wanted to give credit were it's due.
 
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I was waiting for someone to realize that:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Zaine
I was waiting for someone to realize that:D
the october thing?

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Day 6
1. No masturbation/porn-complete
2. Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week- Monday, Wednesday, Friday)-complete
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
b. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-complete
c. running-complete

4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to completesomething-complete
 
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Day 7

1. No masturbation/porn-complete
2. Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week- Failed Monday, Wednesday, Friday)
a. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-Failed
b. 3 sets of pushups, in the order of 30, 20, 10-Failed
c. running-complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something-complete

Got the running in, had a soccer game then spent the night at a friends house, came home at 1:30 and went to bed. Had some problems earlier in the day as well, fixing a mistake my mom made on the computer and letting a bunch of spyware in.

Day 8
1. No masturbation/porn-Failed
(Record: 8)
Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week)- Not a workout day; complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something-In progress
 

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Day 9

1. No masturbation/porn-Failed
(Record: 8)
Hold A/A- Average at school-complete
3. Workout plan (3 times a week)- Not a workout day; complete
4. No Procrastination/ working on things every day, not waiting till night before to complete something- Complete

Darnit, I'm slipping, oh well, no more failure!

I'm considering revampin this alittle, changing a few of my goals, adding a few etc.
 
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