“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My style -- peacocking (w/ pic)

Spirit Fingers

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I just posted an article on my blog about how I dress when I go out these days, with a picture for those who haven't met me IRL. I go into why I wear certain things, as well as how I acheive my look. You guys are welcome to take pieces of my style and make them your own, as well as give me advice on how you think I could improve my look. Check it out:

My style/peacocking

-Dan
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Schlep

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We were just talking about the loose tie idea in chat last night. Anyways, I like the look. Have you thought about using a t-shirt with a good design underneath instead of the white undershirt?
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Here in Italy I peacock everyday because Im the only one who doesnt care what hes wearing.

hey man, where do you live in italy?
how can you peacock without caring about the way you dress?:confused:
do you mean that you don't care to fit in with the way you dress? because that's peacocking:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vibe

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Man, I used to wear that kind of stuff in high school and it worked then - I sort of drifted away from that style toward the end of college...I feel like it presents you as a kid. I dunno. Maybe I should revisit the old wardrobe. I have been going more for the James Dean/50s gangster style lately and it seems to be working pretty well. Any thoughts?

~Vibe~
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Jay-X
hey man, where do you live in italy?
how can you peacock without caring about the way you dress?:confused:
do you mean that you don't care to fit in with the way you dress? because that's peacocking:)
Peacocking means standing out.

I live in Rome.
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

dancing is my peacocking! Gets annoying though sometimes when I got the club or bar and hear "OMG, there's that dancing guy!! SHow my friend how you do those waves in your body"

LOL!
 

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tie is too big and too long, should go around the outside of your collar, but then you'd look like me, just my 2 cents :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chillisauce

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Style is something i'm lacking in so thanks for the example, still kinda lost on how to dress myself though :( . I plan to change my clothes in Feb after i'v put on abit more weight, so have till then to figure out how i want to come across.
 
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