"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My style -- peacocking (w/ pic)

Spirit Fingers

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I just posted an article on my blog about how I dress when I go out these days, with a picture for those who haven't met me IRL. I go into why I wear certain things, as well as how I acheive my look. You guys are welcome to take pieces of my style and make them your own, as well as give me advice on how you think I could improve my look. Check it out:

My style/peacocking

-Dan
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Schlep

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We were just talking about the loose tie idea in chat last night. Anyways, I like the look. Have you thought about using a t-shirt with a good design underneath instead of the white undershirt?
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Here in Italy I peacock everyday because Im the only one who doesnt care what hes wearing.

hey man, where do you live in italy?
how can you peacock without caring about the way you dress?:confused:
do you mean that you don't care to fit in with the way you dress? because that's peacocking:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vibe

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Man, I used to wear that kind of stuff in high school and it worked then - I sort of drifted away from that style toward the end of college...I feel like it presents you as a kid. I dunno. Maybe I should revisit the old wardrobe. I have been going more for the James Dean/50s gangster style lately and it seems to be working pretty well. Any thoughts?

~Vibe~
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Jay-X
hey man, where do you live in italy?
how can you peacock without caring about the way you dress?:confused:
do you mean that you don't care to fit in with the way you dress? because that's peacocking:)
Peacocking means standing out.

I live in Rome.
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

dancing is my peacocking! Gets annoying though sometimes when I got the club or bar and hear "OMG, there's that dancing guy!! SHow my friend how you do those waves in your body"

LOL!
 

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tie is too big and too long, should go around the outside of your collar, but then you'd look like me, just my 2 cents :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chillisauce

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Style is something i'm lacking in so thanks for the example, still kinda lost on how to dress myself though :( . I plan to change my clothes in Feb after i'v put on abit more weight, so have till then to figure out how i want to come across.
 
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