My story. Please help!

[zenira]

Hi guys
I has loved a girl for long time from my work places. But I have never told her about this. But I think she understand this situation. We pretend each other we are just friend. I know this is my fault. I had a lot heartache
One day she said me that she got engaged with a man. I did not talk to her long time. I ignored her. One day she call me and said she want to make peace and does not want to lose me in her life.
We started to talk again and we were just friend and secret lover and she broke up with her fiance 3 month later.
After she broke up with her fiance, she is cold about me and I see them in street and that boy send flowers to working place.
Today I see them in street and the boy carry her bags
She goes out with me if I want but she goes with him if he wants
I love her really and I don't know what I do. My heart is crying and I see her every day in office. What can I do?:cuss:

 

[wishyo]

If you like her, you should have made a move. Being shy/AFC/nice guy doesn't really pay off in this game (based on my experience). Either she accepts, or rejects, you take some pain and move on..
Check out guides here, they have quite a lot of interesting and useful information.
There will be probably more experienced dudes posting here saying you have oneitis and so on.
Just take the pain, cut your losses and move on. There are a lot of women out there that worth your attention. It is easy to say, but not as easy to understand/implement and actually get over it. Right now I am actually on the same page in the sense that the girl I date got into my head and getting to my heart.. so far been "lucky" with her as she has interest in me

 

[zenira]

we are so close friend. Firstly I saw her as a sister. I felt something but I couldn't tell her

 

[zenira]

I saw her with ex fiance yesterday. But she lied me
Should I leave her immediately or should I wait to her to leave her ex fiance
I don't know really what I will do, I am confused

 

[No.Danny]

Next her.
Are you freaking gay. You have a serious lack of options. Becoming obsessed with this ONE girl