"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My story. Please help!

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Hi guys
I has loved a girl for long time from my work places. But I have never told her about this. But I think she understand this situation. We pretend each other we are just friend. I know this is my fault. I had a lot heartache
One day she said me that she got engaged with a man. I did not talk to her long time. I ignored her. One day she call me and said she want to make peace and does not want to lose me in her life.
We started to talk again and we were just friend and secret lover and she broke up with her fiance 3 month later.
After she broke up with her fiance, she is cold about me and I see them in street and that boy send flowers to working place.
Today I see them in street and the boy carry her bags
She goes out with me if I want but she goes with him if he wants
I love her really and I don't know what I do. My heart is crying and I see her every day in office. What can I do?:cuss:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you like her, you should have made a move. Being shy/AFC/nice guy doesn't really pay off in this game (based on my experience). Either she accepts, or rejects, you take some pain and move on..
Check out guides here, they have quite a lot of interesting and useful information.
There will be probably more experienced dudes posting here saying you have oneitis and so on.
Just take the pain, cut your losses and move on. There are a lot of women out there that worth your attention. It is easy to say, but not as easy to understand/implement and actually get over it. Right now I am actually on the same page in the sense that the girl I date got into my head and getting to my heart.. so far been "lucky" with her as she has interest in me :)
 
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we are so close friend. Firstly I saw her as a sister. I felt something but I couldn't tell her
 
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I saw her with ex fiance yesterday. But she lied me
Should I leave her immediately or should I wait to her to leave her ex fiance
I don't know really what I will do, I am confused
 
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Next her.
Are you freaking gay. You have a serious lack of options. Becoming obsessed with this ONE girl
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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