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Hey guys,
Sharing my story - made all the mistakes you're taking about, should have found you guys earlier, would save me a lot of pain :}
I'm 25 years old and 3 months ago I broke up with my ex after 2 years of relationship.
It was my first relationship and I was a total newbie with the girls anyway, and even more in the relationship itself:
So we had a fight, I told myself I don't need this ****, and broke up with her.
At start, the breakup was easy I felt relieved and free again
2 Weeks later - she started talking with me and I replied to her because I could feel her pain and cared about her. (Mistake - keeping contact)
After 1 month of keeping contact, I got the feeling that I made a mistake with the breakup, and tried to get her back, then she denied me and now I deal with the feelings of getting dumped. (Mistake - trying to get her back - getting dumped)
After I got dumped , I just went out for a run and felt awesome, and ever since then every time I felt a little sad, instead of feeling sorry for my self I just went out for a run, ran as best as I could to get much dopamine as I can.
Right now it's 2 weeks after I got "dumped" and I don't have happy ending YET.
Why YET?
Because I still sit in my room, read books and study my mistakes and getting better, but haven't put anything to practice.
Next week I'm moving to a era in my life: new city, new job (that I love and gives tons of money) a fresh page towards living the life I WANT.
Anyway, have a good day guys!
- If you feel like a loser, that's what you are. do whatever you want to stop it.
- **** your ex, she's a loser just like you were
Hey guys,
Sharing my story - made all the mistakes you're taking about, should have found you guys earlier, would save me a lot of pain :}
I'm 25 years old and 3 months ago I broke up with my ex after 2 years of relationship.
It was my first relationship and I was a total newbie with the girls anyway, and even more in the relationship itself:
- not standing up for my own interests
- avoiding fights to get lousy sex (and it gotten worse with time)
- giving up on personal, career goals
So we had a fight, I told myself I don't need this ****, and broke up with her.
At start, the breakup was easy I felt relieved and free again
2 Weeks later - she started talking with me and I replied to her because I could feel her pain and cared about her. (Mistake - keeping contact)
After 1 month of keeping contact, I got the feeling that I made a mistake with the breakup, and tried to get her back, then she denied me and now I deal with the feelings of getting dumped. (Mistake - trying to get her back - getting dumped)
After I got dumped , I just went out for a run and felt awesome, and ever since then every time I felt a little sad, instead of feeling sorry for my self I just went out for a run, ran as best as I could to get much dopamine as I can.
Right now it's 2 weeks after I got "dumped" and I don't have happy ending YET.
Why YET?
Because I still sit in my room, read books and study my mistakes and getting better, but haven't put anything to practice.
Next week I'm moving to a era in my life: new city, new job (that I love and gives tons of money) a fresh page towards living the life I WANT.
Anyway, have a good day guys!
