"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CanuckinSK

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In the last week I've registered with a few on-line dating sites. I've had a dozen different women write me on this one site (which is for people primarily interested in only a sexual encounter). I haven't posted any pics yet either.

Couple of red flags:
- 10 of these chicks are black HB's (don't get me wrong, I like ALL races of women, but there just aren't many black folks where I live).

- One of these chicks told me graphically what she'd like to do to me. I asked her if she'd at least like a picture first. Response: more promises. I suggested we hookup this weekend, and now she's not going to 'take the bait' (her words) without a picture! LOL . I sent a pic, and I'm just waiting for a response.

What do you guys think? Is she just an AW, will she follow through, if we meet will 'she' turn out to be some big dude who whacks me over the head and takes my wallet?

For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, sure it wasn't just auto generated responses?

Tons of those sites do that man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're being scammed by the "women" that are approaching you online.
And yes, I agree, there are very few black/negro/whatever PC living here percentage-wise so that's obvious.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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CanuckinSK said:
...For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
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Cut back on the bean burritos dude....
 
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