"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My Spidey Sense is Tingling...

CanuckinSK

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In the last week I've registered with a few on-line dating sites. I've had a dozen different women write me on this one site (which is for people primarily interested in only a sexual encounter). I haven't posted any pics yet either.

Couple of red flags:
- 10 of these chicks are black HB's (don't get me wrong, I like ALL races of women, but there just aren't many black folks where I live).

- One of these chicks told me graphically what she'd like to do to me. I asked her if she'd at least like a picture first. Response: more promises. I suggested we hookup this weekend, and now she's not going to 'take the bait' (her words) without a picture! LOL . I sent a pic, and I'm just waiting for a response.

What do you guys think? Is she just an AW, will she follow through, if we meet will 'she' turn out to be some big dude who whacks me over the head and takes my wallet?

For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, sure it wasn't just auto generated responses?

Tons of those sites do that man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moving_Target

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You're being scammed by the "women" that are approaching you online.
And yes, I agree, there are very few black/negro/whatever PC living here percentage-wise so that's obvious.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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CanuckinSK said:
...For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
Cut back on the bean burritos dude....
 
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