"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My Spidey Sense is Tingling...

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CanuckinSK

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In the last week I've registered with a few on-line dating sites. I've had a dozen different women write me on this one site (which is for people primarily interested in only a sexual encounter). I haven't posted any pics yet either.

Couple of red flags:
- 10 of these chicks are black HB's (don't get me wrong, I like ALL races of women, but there just aren't many black folks where I live).

- One of these chicks told me graphically what she'd like to do to me. I asked her if she'd at least like a picture first. Response: more promises. I suggested we hookup this weekend, and now she's not going to 'take the bait' (her words) without a picture! LOL . I sent a pic, and I'm just waiting for a response.

What do you guys think? Is she just an AW, will she follow through, if we meet will 'she' turn out to be some big dude who whacks me over the head and takes my wallet?

For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, sure it wasn't just auto generated responses?

Tons of those sites do that man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're being scammed by the "women" that are approaching you online.
And yes, I agree, there are very few black/negro/whatever PC living here percentage-wise so that's obvious.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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CanuckinSK said:
...For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
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Cut back on the bean burritos dude....
 
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