"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My Spidey Sense is Tingling...

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CanuckinSK

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In the last week I've registered with a few on-line dating sites. I've had a dozen different women write me on this one site (which is for people primarily interested in only a sexual encounter). I haven't posted any pics yet either.

Couple of red flags:
- 10 of these chicks are black HB's (don't get me wrong, I like ALL races of women, but there just aren't many black folks where I live).

- One of these chicks told me graphically what she'd like to do to me. I asked her if she'd at least like a picture first. Response: more promises. I suggested we hookup this weekend, and now she's not going to 'take the bait' (her words) without a picture! LOL . I sent a pic, and I'm just waiting for a response.

What do you guys think? Is she just an AW, will she follow through, if we meet will 'she' turn out to be some big dude who whacks me over the head and takes my wallet?

For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, sure it wasn't just auto generated responses?

Tons of those sites do that man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're being scammed by the "women" that are approaching you online.
And yes, I agree, there are very few black/negro/whatever PC living here percentage-wise so that's obvious.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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CanuckinSK said:
...For the answers to these and other questions, tune in to another edition of "As My Stomach Turns."
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Cut back on the bean burritos dude....
 
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