"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
U r right. Ive got 3 boys and cant imagine another man giving them a hug... or playing catch with them. And i know... it would be quick... she would take noooo time to shack up again. So theres alot in this decision. Its bot binary.
Baibars
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This can't be the only time she did you wrong and didn't take you seriously. And you're focusing too much on her. She is a random hoe and her actions are proof enough for that. She isn't even special.
Click on HyenaPrince's name
Click on 'start conversation' near the right of the screen
Before typing a title and a message, scroll all the way down and click the box that says "allow others to invite to conversation".....hyena will invite for you after you send first message.
I have not messaged with more than one person but I see that its available...."a group" will be created....good luck man
U r right. She isnt special. And shes mean. Which sux...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HyenaPrince
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That's not how it works. You have to click "Start a new conversation" and then enter the recipients. I don't have to invite people, he does.
Ok. I will try it out. Thx
Baibars
Master Don Juan
But it shouldn't suck because you should be above her. All women are like that and nowadays they can do whatever they want without consequences. They have tons of options even if they are fat and ugly. You have to accept that reality and treat them for what they are. Untrustworthy creatures who act based on their emotions. Kids are no reason to stay with her this is not 1950. It's nice to have morals and values but you have to accept that our society doesn't give a damn about them anymore. You can't emotionally invest in someone who can leave you at anytime without consequences.
Would you pay for a house monthly if the government would be able to take it from you at any time? Girls are like that. They can disappear at anytime and betray you.
And we can't do anything about it. No investment which isn't in your own self interest and always willing to walk away. You invested in this one which was a mistake, dump her and recover from it. Then never do such a mistake again.
I understand. That makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
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Honestly this may sound harsh but you seem to have zero self-respect for yourself and she knows it and those other guys know it. That's why they are laughing at you. Because you are being punked by this woman and accepting it.
She knows she can say whatever, do whatever and make up some BS story and you will believe her. There are no consequences for her actions and when there are no consequences she will keep pushing more and more to see how much she can get away with.
She knows she can say whatever, do whatever and make up some BS story and you will believe her. There are no consequences for her actions and when there are no consequences she will keep pushing more and more to see how much she can get away with.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
16 yrs ago though? No other more recent oddities? Its hard for a cheater to put out for 3-4 times a week of good sex to their man. Usually they'll cvck him because it's mentally easier.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being shackled to a "mean" wife blocks your blessings in life and tends to drag you down and keep you small.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Therepist is good advice. A therepist will provide powerful "lift" in this situation.
Yeh. She always gets away with it. Thete are consequences... u r right. Only consequence is divorce.
Ive argued with her ...but she juat says i dont see it that way...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She's not lieing about her view
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeh...im setting some stuff up with a tecently divorced buddy of mine
Shes not lying that shes twisted
Yeh. It was bs. I cant remember what kept me thrre.
I was pissed. I think i remember her coming home and ****ing me... so.. like a 25 yo... i was ok..
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She's a marketing/saleswoman. But like i said in real life most women aren't giving their husbands 3-4 days of really good sex and still having side dyck. They'd rather cvck the husband because it's less stressful that way.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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