"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I used to be a person who had trouble getting a date. Now I have girls I don't even know or say anything to them. Just they start making the moves on me. Like touching me on the butt, or touching me frequentely.

The bad part is some girls, really young seem to make moves on me. Like girls 10 years old or younger. I never make moves on them in anyway. Yet there was this one girl, who stuck her butt in my hand. What should I do to stop this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nothing don't stop it. Just dont advance it any further. Let them be playful,one day they will be legal.
 

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Errr,


Uhm....

Yeah, I'm going to have to disagree with the above poster; if you're getting interest from ten year olds, either you're hanging out with some crazy ten year olds, or you're doing something to give them encouragement. Being that that is the time where boys and girls normally separate socially, I'm amazed any girl that young would muster the courage to stick their ass in your hand.
 

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Nethel said:
if you're getting interest from ten year olds,
I misread it,I thought he meant girls who are ten years younger,my mistake.
 

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I am telling you

These are girls, I have never talked to, I don't hang out with them. These are girls I see in public.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt said:
I misread it,I thought he meant girls who are ten years younger,my mistake.
That's what I hoped he meant... I guess not though.

OP, I don't know what to tell you other than walk away from young girls as quickly as you can. Today that stuff will get you in serious trouble, very quickly.
 

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Okay, I will just walk away from them

Although, as long as you don't make the move on them, I think it is legal. Thanks for the advice.
 

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If you had read the post above you will see.

I don't and never have touched girls in that age range. They just seem to like me for some reason. I do not dress up in anyway.
 

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Although, as long as you don't make the move on them, I think it is legal. Thanks for the advice.
As lawsuit crazed as our country is in this day and age, all it takes is one mom or dad looking to get rich quick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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