"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I used to be a person who had trouble getting a date. Now I have girls I don't even know or say anything to them. Just they start making the moves on me. Like touching me on the butt, or touching me frequentely.

The bad part is some girls, really young seem to make moves on me. Like girls 10 years old or younger. I never make moves on them in anyway. Yet there was this one girl, who stuck her butt in my hand. What should I do to stop this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nothing don't stop it. Just dont advance it any further. Let them be playful,one day they will be legal.
 

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Errr,


Uhm....

Yeah, I'm going to have to disagree with the above poster; if you're getting interest from ten year olds, either you're hanging out with some crazy ten year olds, or you're doing something to give them encouragement. Being that that is the time where boys and girls normally separate socially, I'm amazed any girl that young would muster the courage to stick their ass in your hand.
 

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Nethel said:
if you're getting interest from ten year olds,
I misread it,I thought he meant girls who are ten years younger,my mistake.
 

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I am telling you

These are girls, I have never talked to, I don't hang out with them. These are girls I see in public.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blinkwatt said:
I misread it,I thought he meant girls who are ten years younger,my mistake.
That's what I hoped he meant... I guess not though.

OP, I don't know what to tell you other than walk away from young girls as quickly as you can. Today that stuff will get you in serious trouble, very quickly.
 

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Okay, I will just walk away from them

Although, as long as you don't make the move on them, I think it is legal. Thanks for the advice.
 

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If you had read the post above you will see.

I don't and never have touched girls in that age range. They just seem to like me for some reason. I do not dress up in anyway.
 

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Although, as long as you don't make the move on them, I think it is legal. Thanks for the advice.
As lawsuit crazed as our country is in this day and age, all it takes is one mom or dad looking to get rich quick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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