"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

My sisters ex-husband hangs out at her home

Jack12345

Banned
Joined
Jan 20, 2020
Messages
752
Reaction score
428
Without her interest in it.

They divorced for about a year right now, and any time he comes and just stays there and sometime for a night leaning on the sofa.

I do like him but there is a reason they divorced he lost their money on gaming and made her bankruptcy and also he has a very noisy and debatable temperament which influences her and their children psych. He easily can manipulate me because he knows I never had father or brother and him on the other side grew up in a family with older brother and very dominant father therefore we are getting along well.

On one hand I know it is good for the children that there is a father because I never had one and I know the results, on the other it feels like he tries to establish his dominance towards this issue and I know that if this not will be treated carefully right now there will be no good in the future because he may become very aggressive if you take this dominance from him.

His family not goes easy on him, they are also very noisy and already had enough of him, he always changing works (also during their marriage times), overweight and wont let it go and try to establish normal life.

Do I even need to interrupt this?
 
Last edited:

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Prison is for people who fail at society.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Black Widow Void

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 24, 2010
Messages
2,152
Reaction score
3,796
Here's a happy medium.

Instead of interference, be the alternate strong male example. As an Uncle, you can offer contrast to their father's behavior and this will provide these children with an additional impression.

Like yourself, I also didn't grow up with the best role models. I'm also an Uncle as well.

Best of luck.
 
Top