"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My sisters ex-husband hangs out at her home

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Without her interest in it.

They divorced for about a year right now, and any time he comes and just stays there and sometime for a night leaning on the sofa.

I do like him but there is a reason they divorced he lost their money on gaming and made her bankruptcy and also he has a very noisy and debatable temperament which influences her and their children psych. He easily can manipulate me because he knows I never had father or brother and him on the other side grew up in a family with older brother and very dominant father therefore we are getting along well.

On one hand I know it is good for the children that there is a father because I never had one and I know the results, on the other it feels like he tries to establish his dominance towards this issue and I know that if this not will be treated carefully right now there will be no good in the future because he may become very aggressive if you take this dominance from him.

His family not goes easy on him, they are also very noisy and already had enough of him, he always changing works (also during their marriage times), overweight and wont let it go and try to establish normal life.

Do I even need to interrupt this?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prison is for people who fail at society.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's a happy medium.

Instead of interference, be the alternate strong male example. As an Uncle, you can offer contrast to their father's behavior and this will provide these children with an additional impression.

Like yourself, I also didn't grow up with the best role models. I'm also an Uncle as well.

Best of luck.
 
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