My sister tells me that I am getting too big of an ego?

[Shootin4Dreams]

I know she is a woman same with my dads gf she tells me that i should be more humble when a girl compliments me at work. I tell them when I am humble or downplay myself I get treated like crap or women don't care and she says oh man "I am sorry for you" like I am doing such a bad thing?

Howcome they are trying to put me down or have me be more not confident or happy with myself?
I have been humble most of my life and it got me NO WHERE?

Also on the 1st date I had since the breakup I was talking about me losing weight going in the gym and she was saying "I shouldn't lose anymore weight I would be too skinny" I said no I want to weigh this much and be in shape. What is the deal with women and wanting to downplay me?

 

[gravityeyelids]

This is similar to how a girl goes "omg you're SUCH an a$$hole! I hate you." Right before she sucks your c0ck and fvcks the everloving sh!t out of you. Words mean nothing.

And regarding accepting compliments... 95% of the time, the proper, best response to a SINCERE compliment is 'Thank you.' You may think you're being ****y funny when you say things like 'I know' in response to a compliment but you're not. You're being rude and unattractive.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

thanks

 

[El Payaso]

She's a woman. I wouldn't listen to her just for that fact alone.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Maybe you are putting off a vibe that you are insecure, able to be controlled and weak around women?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I know this. Back around the time I made this account, I would constantly say "I am the greatest" because I started watching a lot of old school boxing videos and Muhammad Ali was my favorite. Well, because I began thinking about me being the greatest, I began to become it (as you think, you shall become) and felt great. This would describe why I chose my name. I was transcended as guru would put it.

Well needless to say, I stopped feeling great because my family got sick of me saying it and feeling happy all the time. What I have figured out is that no one, not even your parents will want good for you all the time. They want good for you in the logical sense that most parents SHOULD want good for their kids, but once you start doing things differently than them, they will put you down to make sure ethat they're on top of you. This isn't the case with EVERY parent, but it is for most.