MrJack
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I mean yea you’re not wrong but that’s a cliff noted version. It’s more deeply rooted than that.
What you said is just a result of what I said.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
My sister has a very beautiful Armenian friend in New Jersey/NY
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What you said is just a result of what I said.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Von
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At least he's getting some actions, more success and more experience.
It makes him a better candidate for the Trophy
R.U.G.
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Half Greek, half Italian here. Most women I've dated were latin, Italian, and Greek. Some Irish and Jewish women as well. Checking my score book, only two were Armenian. Never had an issue with any. Well, other than they can be a pain in the a$$ though. Then again, that can be said with all women in the dating realm.
Women are as loyal as their options allow. Once you accept this truth, your dating life will be better. Rest assured, if this chick had a chance with Leonardo DiCaprio, she'd be on him like white on rice.
i think that applies to men too and we even have less requirements but thats because girls dont hit on us
R.U.G.
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Never dated a man, so I cannot comment. Not looking to test your theory though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
R.U.G.
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To each there own. Was never a fan at backhanded complements though. Lol.