Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My sister has a very beautiful Armenian friend in New Jersey/NY

MrJack

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his problem is that he cares too much about specific girl

but thats normal when you arent attracting enough girls
I mean yea you’re not wrong but that’s a cliff noted version. It’s more deeply rooted than that.

What you said is just a result of what I said.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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R.U.G.

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must have been born here in the US. Ones born in Armenia are ridiculous about their ethnicity loyalty

I personally would love Armenian wife but I wouldn't hesitate to date a hot Spanish or Italian chick either
Half Greek, half Italian here. Most women I've dated were latin, Italian, and Greek. Some Irish and Jewish women as well. Checking my score book, only two were Armenian. Never had an issue with any. Well, other than they can be a pain in the a$$ though. Then again, that can be said with all women in the dating realm.

Women are as loyal as their options allow.
Once you accept this truth, your dating life will be better. Rest assured, if this chick had a chance with Leonardo DiCaprio, she'd be on him like white on rice.

 

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Half Greek, half Italian here. Most women I've dated were latin, Italian, and Greek. Some Irish and Jewish women as well. Checking my score book, only two were Armenian. Never had an issue with any. Well, other than they can be a pain in the a$$ though. Then again, that can be said with all women in the dating realm.

Women are as loyal as their options allow. Once you accept this truth, your dating life will be better. Rest assured, if this chick had a chance with Leonardo DiCaprio, she'd be on him like white on rice.

i think that applies to men too and we even have less requirements but thats because girls dont hit on us
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RUG I think you're garbage as a poster but I like that
 

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Lol sorry I confused you with DEEZEDBRAH
 
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