Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
I've developed a solid Sh*it Test I have been giving women recently to determine if they are worthy of my time and/or are date-able:
1- I don't chase women--EVER. I usually engage online, message a couple times, get their number to text, and ask them out fast. If they accept: PASSED
2- On the first date, I really don't mind buying the first couple rounds with some appetizers. Most of the women I date are 15-20+ years younger, I have money (but NEVER flaunt it), so it's ok by me. BUT, at some point in the night I'll create a situation where I demand she buys us shots because of a bad joke, pool game loss, couldn't answer a question, lame remark, whatever. I'll (jokingly) make a big deal out of it and say, "Ok, now for your punishment, you are buying us shots AND I'm picking the drinks." She laughs and agrees and buys: PASSED
3- After the date, if they send me a text (I NEVER text after a date) thanking me and saying how much fun they had: PASSED
4- Then, I go silent for 5-7 days. It's ok to follow up after 7 days--to schedule a date ONLY. Frankly, I date a lot of women, own a business, and have other interests, so even if I really liked them, I don't have that much time to spend. I don't get Oneitis, and you shouldn't either. It's fatal. If they initiate within the 7 days post-date time frame: PASSED. If they accept my date offer after the 7 days: PASSED
So the scoring:
0-1/4: NEXT!
2/4: Soft next, let them reach out, you make the date if they do, if not, NEXT!
3/4: Ok, some potential, a reach out by you after 7 days is ok. Have a plan and make a date offer, be specific(!), then stop communication until the date. If she accepts: ADVANCE!
4/4: High interest and a keeper. Keep the conversations brief and infrequent between dates, plan FUN dates, be creative, affectionate, funny, confident. YOU'RE the FUC*KING MAN in your mind. ADVANCE!
Good luck.
~Dash
1- I don't chase women--EVER. I usually engage online, message a couple times, get their number to text, and ask them out fast. If they accept: PASSED
2- On the first date, I really don't mind buying the first couple rounds with some appetizers. Most of the women I date are 15-20+ years younger, I have money (but NEVER flaunt it), so it's ok by me. BUT, at some point in the night I'll create a situation where I demand she buys us shots because of a bad joke, pool game loss, couldn't answer a question, lame remark, whatever. I'll (jokingly) make a big deal out of it and say, "Ok, now for your punishment, you are buying us shots AND I'm picking the drinks." She laughs and agrees and buys: PASSED
3- After the date, if they send me a text (I NEVER text after a date) thanking me and saying how much fun they had: PASSED
4- Then, I go silent for 5-7 days. It's ok to follow up after 7 days--to schedule a date ONLY. Frankly, I date a lot of women, own a business, and have other interests, so even if I really liked them, I don't have that much time to spend. I don't get Oneitis, and you shouldn't either. It's fatal. If they initiate within the 7 days post-date time frame: PASSED. If they accept my date offer after the 7 days: PASSED
So the scoring:
0-1/4: NEXT!
2/4: Soft next, let them reach out, you make the date if they do, if not, NEXT!
3/4: Ok, some potential, a reach out by you after 7 days is ok. Have a plan and make a date offer, be specific(!), then stop communication until the date. If she accepts: ADVANCE!
4/4: High interest and a keeper. Keep the conversations brief and infrequent between dates, plan FUN dates, be creative, affectionate, funny, confident. YOU'RE the FUC*KING MAN in your mind. ADVANCE!
Good luck.
~Dash